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I don't know if this would work but I feel like the ideal way for a feeder to online feed me would be first to find my limit with a food. Like find the max I can eat in one stuffing without eastong food. Then as more feedings go on theyI like slowly add customizations until it has warped my food perception. For example if its a burger start with a 1/4" patty and then slowly add extra tomato and sauce and eventually sizing up to 1/2" without telling me. Then eventually sizing up other things like the size of fries or drink. Then eventually just adding more food to the order ehrn they think I'm ready to meat more than customizations can get. This will get me to not realize that I'm eating more food. Eventually this will lead to me over consuming calories and slowly growing my calorie intake in my personal non stuffing and gaining life. Idk if this would work or if there are any issues lmk what you think would happen? I haven't tried it so idk if it would work but I'd think it would be fun to test.
I've done a number of online feeding sessions. What worked for me is letting the feedee set the pace and tone for the first stuffing. It gave me a benchmark to compare our goals as well as compatibility.
From there, I'd figure out what motivates them to eat. Is it gentle teasing, degradation, competition, etc. For me, as a domme feeder, mentally captivating a feedee is the most important aspect. They need to crave it to the point that they can't help how greedy they are.
